For the longest time, I pondered coming back here to leave a piece. Dear reader, a lot has happened since 2018 when I came back home from Ireland . Believe me, life has happened to me.
I am however proud to say that I am still standing despite the many obstacles i faced on the way to becoming the current me. One thing i must let you in on is the fact that your girl is now lawyer!
Now that I have spoken about some positive things,I think it is imperative to mention that the mother who raised me did not live long enough to see me become a lawyer. I feel like I am experiencing hunherera for the second time in my life. Death did not stop there, recently i lost my brother, my twin! However in all this I continue to be thankful and grateful to God.
I did not mean to dampen the mood but a lot has happened and i feel the need to update. I am sure you are wondering what became of the pressure for me to settle down and have a family of my own. All i can say is, It did happen, I experienced all of it, having a husband and having kids. Heck i even went on to have a set of twins. But believe me when i say that I still have questions on whether this life of marriage is meant for everyone or we just do it to be accepted in our community. One day I will give a full expose of my experience. For now i will continue to raise the babies i brought into this life with the hope that I will see them grow up and become the best beings.
There is however one thing i can't leave without mentioning and that is the fact that, we lose people, some move on, some we outgrow and some we continue to love from a distance!
I surely hope this small piece has given you a glimpse of what is happening in my life and where i am.
